Lay your Hand for Friendship

Is Kukurukuko your friend?

For someone as straightforward as me, I often pause for one acceptable answer…

acceptable to the one asking and acceptable to me.

I usually say “No… just an acquaintance”.

I negate the question to further come out with follow-up questions.

“Are we not really friends?”

How come we do the things what friends usually do?

I stay, eat, sleep and hangout at Kukurukuko’s house sometimes…

Shows concern by giving unsolicited advice at some of Kukurukuko’s life somehow.

That’s what friends are doing, isn’t it?

That’s what a friend usually does.

Yeah.

But what’s blocking me to fully accept that we are?

That it’s safer to say “No, we’re not.  Just an acquaintance.”

Will that answer hurts Kukurukuko in a way?

One thing’s for sure… that if I answer positively…and I assume we are…

And in Kukurukuko’s part we’re not… it will hurt me more…

Better not to…

Less mistakes… less hurt.

No assumptions… no expectations…

Hello Kitty, Mickey Mouse, Tigger, Eeyore, Piglet are my friends.  Yes!

Kukurukuko… I really don’t know. 

Has anyone lay the hand for friendship?  If there is… then that’s the time to give yours.

Make a pact clear to both parties.