Relationships

I am more fascinated with relationships that started in friendship than the traditional courtship… those that are rooted in friendship and developed into something more than that.

It's when two souls noticed that they have to depart from mere friends is what makes it exciting hehehe and they both agreed that there's love in them that they would want to build forever… more than the good things they have… Yihee! 

Give her two red roses, each with a note. The first note says "For the woman I love" and the second, "For my best friend."

Is it better for a woman to marry a man who loves her than a man she loves.

Their Love Story

I decided to grab the pics of some of my friends who have long been engaged and ended up marrying each other. 

Lenie and Hubby  *  Ayee and hubby   *   Rona and boyfriend

They didn't know that I grabbed this photos for posting.  They didn't know either that I really admire their love stories.

I was just so happy that despite the long years of engagement… 10 years, I think for Rona and her bf while Ms. Lenie and Ayee all started in college… Galing talaga….

When I was just in elementary, I've been a fan of Ma'am Lynette and Kuya Andrew Angkaw's love story.  They started when they were in highschool and been married after so so long.  That's the challenge eh.  You've been around for so long and you commit yourself to fully accept that love they profess…

Ohh.. there's Mdme. Emie pa pala… my highschool teacher… grabe.. 8 or 10 years din sila ng husband nila tapos ayun.. sila din in the end..

Eh inisip ko… kung ganito ang gusto kong mangyari.. kamusta naman.. hahahaha ilan taon na ko nun…

Sincerely, in my heart, I have always high hopes and best regards to my friends who have triumphantly won over the struggles of their relationships… I have nothing but good wishes for you guys!  Panalo!

Mga Batang Bading

The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that  hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, under its roof. — Barbara Kingsolver

Last night, I watched The Correspondents where it featured the lives of the "Batang Bading".  I saw Karen Davila at some point in time, been teary-eyed at one of the young boy's story.  I, myself, been affected by the young boy's struggle… a closet young gay still hoping that he would soon be accepted by his father not for being a gay but for the good things he will do out of being a gay.

One of the teachers said, they are teaching them to be productive and to be good individuals irrespective of gender preference. 

They care not about other people's rejection for as long as they are wholly accepted by their family.  The love and understanding of the family will always be your headboard… it will always be your strength…

I have gay friends, some are closet, some are discreet, some are open, some are still denying… but for me, for as long as you don't do any harm to yourself and to others, the issue of being gay will always be set aside.

Nagkataon lang talaga na pusong babae ang mga yan… itaktak mo man…. at saang anggulo mo man tingnan.. tao pa rin yan..

Nararapat lang tratuhin at  mahalin bilang tao.  Basta nagpapakatao… at mabuting tao.. kahit ano pa yan… tanggapin mo ng buong-buo.

Banggang Motor

Isang masayang halakhakan ang nagpaganda ng araw ko ngayon.  Habang nasa byahe kami papuntang Ayala, nakita ko ang isang yuping pinto ng isang Toyota Altis.  At doon na nagsimula ang kwentuhang halos ikinahagalpak ko ng tawa.

Sabi kasi ng kapatid ko, pag kotse o van ang bumangga sa yo, ayun pwede kang makipag-away, makipagtaray.. pero kapag naka-motor… wag ko na raw pag-isipang awayin… baka daw kasi, nagmamadaling hired killer yun na armado ng baril o balisong.  Eh di sabi ko… ah ganun… sasabihin ko na lang pala..

"Uy, next time.. ingat ka ha…?  Okay lang to!"

Dinugtungan naman ng kapatid ko nang.. "Baka nagalusan ka… gusto mo meryenda muna tayo? Or treat kita ng dinner…" Hahahaha

Isa pa ulit… "Nag-aalala kasi ako sa sugat mo.. okay lang tong bangga. Don't worry!"

Hirit ulit ni bro… "Sorry ha… nabangga mo ako.  Take care na lang always!"  Hahahaha

Nasa kahabaan kami ng Ayala at puro ganon lang ang kwentuhan namin.  Hindi namin namalayan na ang traffic na pala.. Saya noh?

Sarap ng kulitang ganun hehehe